Abundance

Wayne and I met during the last ten months of his life, and I believe that the work he did gave him a direction that was so strong it kept him going after many people would have given up hope. He had a way to quickly get to the bottom of a behavior, and then held you accountable for your behavior. At the same time, you knew he cared deeply about what was going on, and he expressed it. After his passing, I have learned much more about Dr Diamond thought my correspondence with Leslie and this Blog.
I have never heard anyone say before that a behavior will result in Scarcity, and what you really want is the opposite- Abundance. Wayne would repeat this theme, and in doing so shift the way that I was thinking about things. Here are my notes from our meeting.

Abundance turns negative weakness into something strong and workable, and people see value in everything I do.

Scarcity Versus Abundance

See in the world as a universe constricting versus a universe expanding.

Avoidance behavior versus facing fears and working out problems in context of relationship.

Fleeing from adversity versus having the ability to respond.

Being manipulative versus building trust and respect.
By Carl
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Leslie sent me these comments that Wayne had written:

The True Nature of Abundance

* True Abundance is having total faith in the future.
* Abundance is the ability to create, and sustain intimacy.
* Abundance is the self-respect that rises out of loving one's work, regardless if it becomes difficult.
* Abundance is the warmly unified set of feelings that is carried, following respectful, honest communication with someone of high regard.
* Most of all, Abundance is the wonderful experience of mutual love. This can come in many forms...a spouse, children, family members and friends. Be open to it!
* Abundance is the sheer joy of seeing, and hearing a child laugh.
* Abundance is the ability to enjoy and love animals.
* Abundance can be hearing, and seeing geese fly south for the winter, and the gentle longing of wanting to fly with them.
* Abundance is having hope for the future, after seeing buds on the trees - while there is still snow on the ground.
* Abundance is facing a powerful fear.
* Abundance is trusting intrusion, even if a reflex appears to second guess it.
* Abundance is learning something new about a person you deeply care about, when you thought there wasn't anything left to discover - when we are open, there is always something new to discover. Dr. Wayne C. Diamond

Kayann

I've worked with Dr. Diamond for over a year and during that time frame he has taught me the fundamentals of taking care of not only the physical aspects but the mental as well. Dr. Diamond was a blessing not only to me but my entire family. Words can not express the gratitude we have for his knowledge about the medical field and his sharing with me in regards to his own life experiences. My condolences and heart felt regards to his family.

My Brother Wayne

As I sat listening to Wayne's patients, friends and family speak of him at his Memorial Service, I came to realize just how very special my brother was to so many people. I sat listening to how Wayne helped, and in some instances saved some of the lives of the people that spoke that day.

My husband Joe and I sat in back of Wayne's grandson George Seth at the Memorial Service. We had a hard time controlling our tears because we saw G Seth weep several times thoughout the service. It was quite evident that he loved his Gampy very much. Wayne mentioned that he was so sad that he was not going to be here to see his grandchildren George Seth and Jordan grow up.

Wayne told me that he had no regrets in his life. He went on to say that he was "just sad" for many reasons that his life was ending too soon. Even though my brother Wayne is no longer here, he will live in the hearts of many.

Hankster

My name is Hank, and Wayne called me Hankster or Hammerin' Hank whenever we used to meet at his Chestnut Hill office. I was always greeted by Smuffy his sweet cat who always had a warm welcome and gentle nudge for me when I'd sit down in his comfortable chair. I'd patiently wait for Wayne do his thing in the bathroom, then he'd come out and sit down, and then the incredible inward journey would begin for both of us. I have such fond memories of our sessions even though some were quite painful and arduous, nevertheless they were necessary for a healthy emotional life for me. Wayne used to tell me that we'll all be dead for along time, so while we are here it's vital that we form healthy functional relationships. He would tell me many times ( I wouldn't mind his repetition), " there's nowhere to go with the people that we're trying to relate to if they hide out in their hurt,fear,sadness, and withhold their true feelings from us. That we must seek out those that have done the inner core work, and have worked on their family of origin issues,that are not hiding out their feelings, and that love their work." His work with me has saved my life in many ways. To be continued, and bless all of you for participating in this wonderful blog.

My Big Brother

My earliest memory of Wayne was learning of his bravery and willingness to see his new sister in the nursery of Hahnemann Hospital, soon after I was born. He snuck up several floors . Knowing that, has always made me feel special. I think Wayne has made everyone he dealt with, feel special in unique ways. I also saw Wayne as a "very smart guy", as he advised me of how to pursue going to college. I can honestly say that Wayne and I did not spend our lives being close, but we DID spend our lives with a certain connection that I will always cherish. Wayne has a legacy that will go on for many,many years yet to come, asnd knowing that gives me peace.

My last memory of Wayne was sayng "goodbye". I was in his room and he knew I was getting ready to leave. Wayne sat up in bed, looked at me and said, "Patti, you have a good journey home." "You have a good journey home too, Wayne" My reality says he did.

- Patti Bush