In Session With Dr. Diamond

In Session With Dr. Diamond
Teaching Loving Lessons

The Swan and the Butterfly

When people experience loss, especially the loss of a loved one what is usually felt, regardless if the people are adults or children, is a powerful mourning period. This is a natural response. However, another response is also possible: the celebration of what can not be taken away or ever lost. The loving, tender times that have been spent together, represented in the many years and experiences that will always live inside, in our memories. These precious memories, by choice, can be recovered at any time. This not only becomes a sensitive tribute to the loved one who has now moved on, but is also a strong building of positive feelings in the midst of loss. Also, while those we love are alive and present it is vital to remember that each moment together is such a gift, so connected in a loving way to the best of who we are. These emotional elements are essential for adults to teach to children. Then, in the face of loss, of any kind, we can all learn to remain intact - - in a loving way.

When I wrote the Swan and the Butterfly, I thought about the people I had lost in my life. I realized that what was most important was to focus on what could never be taken away from me - - the loving experiences with these people that would always live within me. I fervently hope that this book will help you and all of those close to you to have peace and comfort, too - - in the presence of any loss in your life. Also, remember that each moment is to be treasured.

Dr. Wayne C. Diamond

Wednesday, February 17, 2010

My Brother Wayne

As I sat listening to Wayne's patients, friends and family speak of him at his Memorial Service, I came to realize just how very special my brother was to so many people. I sat listening to how Wayne helped, and in some instances saved some of the lives of the people that spoke that day.

My husband Joe and I sat in back of Wayne's grandson George Seth at the Memorial Service. We had a hard time controlling our tears because we saw G Seth weep several times thoughout the service. It was quite evident that he loved his Gampy very much. Wayne mentioned that he was so sad that he was not going to be here to see his grandchildren George Seth and Jordan grow up.

Wayne told me that he had no regrets in his life. He went on to say that he was "just sad" for many reasons that his life was ending too soon. Even though my brother Wayne is no longer here, he will live in the hearts of many.
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